Hi guys,
I'm Matthew from Singapore, currently studying in NTU.
This is my reason for changing my current course of study (electrical engineering) to psychology. 1000 characters limit.
Should I include reasons for leaving my current course? Also, do you think the topic is appropriate?
I started practising the art of conversing with girls after my national service stint ended. At that time I did not have a girlfriend nor have I been in any serious relationship before. Then my friend introduced me to a book on dating. I was hooked. This book seems to suggest that approaching and dating women is like a science, that by following specific steps and taking specific actions, one can eventually make the girl his girlfriend or wife. This completely shattered all the thoughts and beliefs I had on dating. I was truly amazed at how the human mind works.
Attraction between human beings is a science, and I am curious how the brain works in such situations. Psychology is the key to that answer. My dream is to become a ladies' man and thereafter a dating coach, where I can share my knowledge of dating science, specifically in the context of Singapore's population, to many males out there who have no clue on how to attract the opposite gender.
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This book seems to suggest that approaching and dating women is like a science
... it is a science and an art too ...LOL :D
Hey... I really like this little piece of writing. Very creative indeed....however, I have never come across any guy who dared to read a book on dating. You are quite organized and interesting :D
Anyway, you've done a wonderful job with this response. I hope and pray you will be successful with this transfer.
Cheers
Pahan :)
Thx Pahan, LOL yeah its an art but if the person reading this is a woman, I wonder if she'll find it insulting.
Also, I think my link back to psychology is kinda weak, I cant seem to find the right words ><
P.S: Many guys have read books on dating, just few dare to admit openly. :D
Hi Matthew,
I've been in your same situation before and know what it feels like. I started a similar path six years ago and have traveled all over the world learning from the very best dating coaches, tantra teachers and female psychology experts. It's truly amazing how your life and outlook can change dramatically be learning how to relate with women more effectively. I'm now a dating coach based in Las Vegas. I would love to hear more about your goals and your journey into this world.
Sincerely,
Tom
ElvevatedTom-dot-com
Hey Matthew,
I love your essay! It's really interesting how you found your niche. Notwithstanding the character limit, I think you should squeeze in some of your selling points in psychology department. Nevertheless, I believe that passion comes first. All the best for your transfer :D
Hey Tom,
Wow 6 years is a long time, I barely started, currently a few months in. Yes it is amazing how your life changes through this, would love to tell you more. Too bad we can't send private messages here..
