Competitive children can archive more in their adult life; competition or co-operation?

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Some people think that sense of competition in children should be encouraged. Others believe that children who are taught to co-operate rather than compete become more useful adults.

Discuss both views and give your own opinion.

It is essential for every parent to give his/her children good upbringing that would well serve for their future. There are people who tend to think that children have to learn competition skills from early life. On the contrary, other people's opinion is that co-operation is a key for success in upbringing. Both views are based on several reasons.

Competition among children studying, for example, at elementary or secondary school can help them to understand how to survive in the real life being alone and hence prepare them in advance for competitive life. For instance, many famous artists, scientists, inventors had to compete with their fellows from childhood; now they know how and what to do in situations when they should show why they have to be on the first places and not other ones. Moreover, competition makes a child to work harder and to put forth a great effort. It is true for any competition where they want to participate, be they sport games or school contests.

Alternatively, people who believe that co-operation benefits a child rely on that a child can learn how to work as a team member when everyone helps and advises each other. If a child ever faces difficult problems then he/she always can rely on his/her friends. This is how they learn to be socially responsible and solve problems in unity. In addition, working in a team generates different ideas applied in completing tasks.

To conclude, in my opinion, competitive children can archive more in their adult life as they have to make it best and act alone without any help. While we should also not to forget to work together when circumstances are different and demand other people's help.

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now they know how and what to do in situations when they should show why they have to be on the first places and not other ones.

this statement is not clear. please clarify your idea.

I mean, those people, I mentioned in the previous sentence, having learned from their childhood competition skills, they know what to do in situations when it needs to compete with their rivals. Their success come from the skills they acquired in their childhood.