One day I realized my potential, not as a player, but as a mentor and instructor.
This is an example of a sentence to which your English teacher might say "Show, don't tell!" Instead of making a claim, mention the experience that made you discover your talent as a mentor. Use imagery words and action verbs, and the reader will really experience it!
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Also, here is a place to add a comma:
These were the years that my leadership skills began to develop and emerge and, it's safe to say, I loved the feeling.
Nice! At the end, you might want to talk about how you can continue to get that feeling as you enter your chosen career in the field of _________.