TED summary, 10 ways to have a better conversation by Mrs Celeste Headlee
These day, this world that we live in, this world which every conversation has potential to develop about pro and contra, politic, number of issues are not normal. Research study show that 10 thousands people in america at these moment were more divided than we had ever been in history. We are less likely to compromise which means we are not listening each other and we are making decisions based on what we belief. A conversation need balance between talking and listening. Teenager in USA are more likely to send text rather than talk to each other which make teacher feel fail to teach communication skill.
In this video, the speaker will teach 10 basic how to be have better conversation without wasting your time and boring. First, Don't multitasking, means that when you talk to somone meanwhile you think another topic. Secondly,Don't act like teacher. Because if we concesive about someone opinion it will naturally broke the good conversation. Next, Use open questions, start with 5W1H (what, who, where, why, when and how) and don't make complicated question. Also, Go with the flow, means that if someone ideas are coming, then you should let it out.Fifth, If you don't know, say don't know. Thereafter, Don't compare your experience with them. Please also remember about not repeating your question, it is humiliating and boring. More importantly, stay out the long-winded and forget about details. Eventually, Listen to them and Talk briefly, we tend to listen not to understand but with the intend to reply.
These day, this world that we live in, this world which every conversation has potential to develop about pro and contra, politic, number of issues are not normal. Research study show that 10 thousands people in america at these moment were more divided than we had ever been in history. We are less likely to compromise which means we are not listening each other and we are making decisions based on what we belief. A conversation need balance between talking and listening. Teenager in USA are more likely to send text rather than talk to each other which make teacher feel fail to teach communication skill.
In this video, the speaker will teach 10 basic how to be have better conversation without wasting your time and boring. First, Don't multitasking, means that when you talk to somone meanwhile you think another topic. Secondly,Don't act like teacher. Because if we concesive about someone opinion it will naturally broke the good conversation. Next, Use open questions, start with 5W1H (what, who, where, why, when and how) and don't make complicated question. Also, Go with the flow, means that if someone ideas are coming, then you should let it out.Fifth, If you don't know, say don't know. Thereafter, Don't compare your experience with them. Please also remember about not repeating your question, it is humiliating and boring. More importantly, stay out the long-winded and forget about details. Eventually, Listen to them and Talk briefly, we tend to listen not to understand but with the intend to reply.
