Some people believe that the best way of learning about life is by listening to the advice of family and friends. Other people believe that the best way of learning about life is through personal experience. Compare the advantages of these two different ways of learning about life. Which do you think is preferable? Use specific examples to support your preference .
Personal experience can be deemed as a teacher who gives us practical experience, so family members and friend's advice can be great support or a guide to resolve the quandaries. Advice from family members can be considered most wise notion as they come through parents self - experience, on the other hand life will be full of trials if we determine to learn through our experiences, living lessons of not repeating the mistakes and continuing the good efforts. Both has their own exquisite merits as such it is difficult to comprehend that whether life becomes easy by our experience or with the help of family and folks advice. I would be presenting elucidation about whether to lead life on personal experience or by seeking family and friend advice.
Firstly, Family and friends are selfless well - wisher and advisers of ours. They have no meanness to acquire anything form us in return of any favor. Parents already walked through the land strips that children would be walking on in future. They have better views, solutions for predicaments and self - experienced lessons to share with children's. That's why probably they can easily forecast the result of our action and choices beforehand. Children's those who focus on parent's guidance and suggestion have to face least difficulties in their life. Also they get aid from their parents to make critical decision of their life that results into less fatal results of their efforts. Parent's advice increase that chances of good result or success. Form my personal experience - My father suggested me to take medical stream after my 10th grade but I stubborn to study accounts and now after marriage and shifting to USA, I remorse to not listen to him as medical professional earn abundant in America.
Self- experience introduced us with our potential and capabilities, but we would tend to commit several errors. It might also delay our progress. Although there are being that are born genius and efficiently handle their lives and make choices relevant to it but other humans has to seek their way out to make their lives hassle free. Personal - experience would also be time consuming but it will teach us to not choose a path that will demotivate us and offer complex outcome. I took independent decision to study diploma course of management, However i observed lot of knowledge but after doing it i realized that Master of business management would have granted me enormous opportunities to make prospective career. I learnt a lesson that shortcut to success lengthens the way to the destination.
As it is said "To err is human", we inadvertently commit certain mistakes in return gets familiar with various ways to tackle hurdles of life. But I was wondering if we can download a readily available content for our academic examination, why we cannot make maximum use of available resource - our parents and friend to decisions of our lives. Obstacles are not less even with the guidance but directions indeed prepare us to face challenges of life.