How to speak so that people want to listen
Instrument that we always hear everyday and everytime is the voice of humans. But a lot of the situations where the time to talk others do not listen. There are seven factors in speaking and this should be left. The first factor is gossip, the second is judging, the third is negativity, the fourth is complaining, the fifth is excuss, the second least is lying, as well as the least is dogmatism. On the other side, there are four positive thing for the foundation when people speak. Usually can reduce with HAIL.
H is honesty => by clear and straight.
A is authenticity => be yourself.
I is integrity => be your word.
L is love => wish them well.
There are tools that can increase the ability to speak consist of register is know about voice that be used, timbre is know voice that sounds like, ritme, speed of sound, inflection, volume of voice.