Ten ways to have a better conversation by Calste Headlee (TEDsummary)
What the amazing performance by Caleste Headlee, a girl who taught us 10 things we need to apply in the way we talking to other people without feeling bored and wasting our time, even if those people are the one we do not like and attract us.
Let me point them up :
1. Be focus. When we talk to other people, do not playing your smartphone or everything else that will disturb your concentration.
2. Do not talk too much about yourself. The big reason is, you talk to someone else to learn something from them since everybody is master of different field.
3. Begin with 5W+1H question. It is to make the gradual conversation.
4. Let it flow. We just need to talk all the things that come out your brain.
5. Be honest. When you talk to someone, then you do not know something, say it truly that you do not know.
6. Do not talk the experience that makes you focus on talking all about you.
7. Try not to repeat yourself as it will make people you talk is getting bored.
8. Forget the details about you because do not care about the details of you such as when were you born, when was the last time you got a present, or something else.
9. This is the most important one that many people always ignore it, listen. The problem that people never realize is, they listen to reply not to understand.
10. Be brief and be interesting.
Through her presentation, she told us to go out and find someone to be talked with as talking is not that hard.
Hi Russell.
In this moment, I do not suggest about your summary because the basic rule for creating the summary you did not follow. Keep in your mind that summarizing is an activity where you watch a video or read an article and you rewrite them, but you use your own words. Your summary is like a report because you did not write systematically. When you summarize, you are supposed to focus the structure of the summary. First, you display the introduction sentence about where you take its resource. For example, because you took from TED's website, you can write "THIS SUMMARY TAKEN ON TED'S WEBSITE PRESENTS A TOPIC DEMONSTRATED BY.... ABOUT......"
After that, you elucidate the topic explained by the speaker. However, you do not forget to include supporting/ reasons sentences which explain or strengthen your topic. It is important that you can explain the basic elements of the summary (WHAT, WHY, WHEN, WHERE, WHO, AND HOW). On the other hand, you do not review the data in detail.
Hopefully, this suggestion can help you to make the summary better.
keep spirit
GOOD LUCK
