Writing Feedback / if it should be parents who choose the partner of their children [5]

Arranged marriage has been a controversial issue up to now.Some people hold beliefs that parents should choose the spouse for their children while others vehemently disapprove.From my point of wiew there being strongly resonable rationales why it should not be the parents but the bride/groom having right to choose their life-mate.

To begin with, an arranged married with not much knowing about other's character easily leads to incompatibilities in marital life.Because the bride/groom holds out much expectations for each other,they properly disappoint when encoutering weaknesses during daily life.There may be other cases of the life-mates without a lot of meetings before wedding, hardly have they realized how different they are.As a result in marriage life they are not able to find a mutual understanding.Futher more,from time to time the couple especially the women although do not have a bissful marriage but having to suffer for the family's respect ,pride and social prejudge.

Secondly,if people have to make the decision of their soulmate on their own they will have to try their best to make the marrige work.Having no one to blame in event of breakup because they have the chances and choices so that they have to intolerate of mistakes, weaknesses, try to share compassion feelings, listen undividedly to each other.This will virtually buid up a really firm marrige and the true reponsibility of the couple.

Finally, under the pressure of many factors, an arranged marriage is likely to transform into a marriage of convenience.This means the wedding is mainly built on fiancial,political or religious reasons.How difficult for a profound love to blossom in such cases.So without the passionate feeling of love, can a marriage be truly happy ?

On the other hand, others may claim that an arranged marrige free some couples from suffering strong protests of family members.In addition hardly have they worry about bad manner or financial problems because their parents usually take into account carefully.However,can a convenient marriage life make compensation for the true feeling in love?Futher more, some strongly approve of this marital life because it just have 0 to 7 % of divorce compared with 55 % of love marriage.However; do these statistics express the complete happy marriage?The couple having an arranged marriage are usually reluctant to break up because of pressure from family in spite of their annoying disappointment while who have a love marriage are more open-minded about the reason to marry and the necessity of divorce when the love is gone.

In conclusion, whereby these persuasive reasons, marrige should never depend predomantly on the parents' choice.To finding their right missing piece, people have to make their own decision and take invaluable advice from their experienced parents.

Writing Feedback / The Equal Rights: men should be responsible for children's upbringing [4]

fatherhood ough to be emphasized as much as motherhood.The idea that women are solely responsible for deciding whether or not to have babies leads on to the idea that thay are also responsible for bringing up the children.To what extent do u agree or disagree(at least 250 words)

There are many people holding the opinion that the decision to give birth is up to the women so they must be in charge of bringing up the baby while others insist for the responsibility of the male.From my point of view,on account of the social equality,children's benefits and full awareness ,it is absolutely essential that the fatherhood be enhanced.

To begin with, men should be responsible for children's upbringing because of the equal rights.It never be the only girl who plays part in making a child so is it very obvious man ought to take care of his baby ?Men also deserve chances to enjoy the profound bond with their children and have happy moments seeing a child be born,grow up everyday, go to school,meet his/her perfect half-life and have a wonderful marriage life.All of those contribute to a fullfilled life for not only the women but men.

In addition,fatherhood had better be appreciated so the children can feel the unplaceable love from both moms and dads.Every children who have the single mom always suffer from the lack of dad's care.Sometimes they feel lonely,being hated and adopted,which is one of the main reason triggering to mental sporadic status or lost steps throughout their life.All should have opportunities to be taken to the park with parents,enjoy the terrible but worthy meals made by the clumsy dads.It is important a growing up boy have mortal lessons and the lovely daughter be walked down the ailes in her wedding with beloved dads.

Finally ,this way will make women fully aware of the role of their spouse.The weak side would greatly feel the responsibility of the strong ones and comprehend that both of them must be in charge of the process of bringing up a child.It may also be a motivation for fragile female not to feel lonely and easily lead to give up on having children.

In conclusion, thereby those persuasive reasons, the part of men in chirlder's upbringing process ought to be given prominence.In doing so,both the mom,dad and children would have a satisfactory life with full of happiness.