Writing Feedback / "borrowing money from a friend and friendship" - TOEFL iBT [4]

It is some times said that borrowing money from a friend can harm or damage a friendship. Do you agree? Why or why not? Use reasons and specific examples to explain your answer.

Friends always are so close to each other and whenever one of them has a problem others try to help him in solving his solution. But I think in some cases such as borrowing money we should not ask help from our friends because it will be produced some difficulties for them or destroyed our friendships. Here, I expand my reasons for this opinion.

Actually financial problems always are not favorite subjects among friends; sometimes we need money and ask it from our friends while they don't have enough money to borrow us, so this issue causes that they feel shame or get into many troubles to provide it for us. Indeed, it's not fair and meets in our friendships.

Also, it may be at the same time we require money and want to get it from our friends they need their budget too. Clearly such condition is so horrible for our friends because if they don't pay this money to us they will feel uncomfortable. On the other hand, if they borrow it, they may be confronting with some difficulties in their work in future. Indeed, making decision in such situation is not difficult and people in most of times can choose the one rationally, but when the opposite site is their friend this turns it so hard.

Moreover, it is possible that we can't repay the money borrowed from our friends in time while they account on our promise for paying it back in special time. So, our reneging can be lead to chagrin our friends and destroy our friendships. I think nothing in the world is not as worthwhile as friendships and its terrible event that we over it just because of money!

All in all, although friends always share their sadness and happiness with each other by noticing to my statements mentioned in this article I believe that financial problems should not be shared among friends; this issue can annoy them, produce some difficulties, and worst of all lead to ruin their friendships.