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Parents help their children to make decision [5]
There is no doubt that parents are the people who most care about their children in the world. Everything about their children they want to help their children to deal with, because parents think they have acquired a lot of experience from many years' process of life. Especially, nowadays, various temptation and information need young people to tackle with. However, from my perspective, I believe that replacement of their children's brain to make decision will be harmful for children's future. My reasons are listed below.
Parents's idea might be old-fashion in modern society. By that I mean, the time is belong with young people. Countless choices need children to address are be instilled much modern ethic. Even if their parents put heart and soul into helping their children, since the situation has changed very much, the decision made by the old "expert" might be proven not meet the modern requirement. For example, My parents love me very much and everything I am doing or will do that they want to involve in. Once, I was supposed to participate my best friend's birthday party, my mother told me I should prepare a serious gift like clock and so on. I accepted her advice and sent a very old-fashion clock. However, my friend did not like it because nowadays the clock means dead in his culture and it is a taboo as gift. Therefore, sometimes parents might not give our better suggestion. In contrast, children are supposed to more independence to make their own decision.
We cannot deny that rich experience our parents will have, but if they help us to deal with everything without limit, spoiling children will be disaster for their children's future rather than brightness.
