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Hypird

Nov 14, 2015

Undergraduate / A new experience - I learnt how the life could be harsh sometimes [5]

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Growing up with both the parents is what every child dream of, mine was opposite. My parents got separated when I was very young and this has turned me to a complete new person. I have won over my fears and became stronger. I had to beat all the difficulties I faced in order to become a person can everyone rely upon him.

I was living almost alone at home; I was frightened and didn't know what I should do. But deep inside myself, I believed that I will overcome this obstacle soon. Because I was young, lack of experience was essential problem for my, so I decided to search for people who can advise me and guides me to the right way, and I found that in my grandparents and my teachers. My grandparents told me that my parents life and problems shouldn't affect my life, and to forget about the past and begin thinking about myself and how I could be a good child. My teachers also told me that what I am feeling, like fearing and despair, is normal and any child would feel the same like me, and they encouraged me to participate in school clubs so I can make a new relationship and defeat my fear in the same time. These simple words were relaxing for me; they opened my eyes for a new life.

I took their wisdom advices into consideration; I participated with library and chemistry clubs in my school, and spent many happy moments with them. Making a new friend was also very important for me, every time I had new friends, I feel more confident and happier. They also helped me to get out of my problem by being on my side all the way, and step by step, that problem has become from the past, and I had become another person.

My beliefs and view of life had changed after that experience, I learnt the life could be harsh sometimes, but it will shape you to who you are now, and teach you lessons you won't forget ever. Now, thanks to my grandparents and friends, I have seen this life from another aspect, the beauty of it. These situation would definitely change anyone, but he has the choice to become better, or worse.

Hypird

Nov 14, 2015

Undergraduate / A new experience - I learnt how the life could be harsh sometimes [5]

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prompt: Describe a circumstance, obstacle or conflict in your life, and the skills and resources you used to resolve it. Did it change you? If so, how?

Living with your mother and dad together is a great boon. Growing up with my family, my parents were always taking care of me, and I was the happiest person in the world. But life isn't always fair, when I entered my high school; my parents' problems have become more obvious and complex. They suddenly stopped talking to each other. I didn't know what was happening, but I thought it was a small dispute and everything will return the same, but that wasn't the case.

I remembered that day when my mother called my sister and I to her room, and told us the shocking truth, in a few weeks she will leave us to her parents' home she said that their problem became so complex and they will break up. I didn't expect this scenario happening even in my dreams, I felt disappointed, frustrated and kept my tears from falling, but my older sister was stronger than me, she understood the circumstance and kept herself calm and relaxed. After which, I lived the worst days in my life, I couldn't think about anything else, and while I was lost, my mother had gone.

My dad was working for long hours till midnight, so my sister and I were alone at home most time. I started to understand the situation, now I had to depend on myself on everything. My sister helped me to find myself and taught me important lessons; we forgot about our old life and made a new one. We cooperated to do the housekeeping and take care of ourselves, and now we have got used to all of that. Living without my parents benefited, and that fear disappeared forever. This situation taught me many things that I won't forget ever, and the most important thing that now I know how to deal with my problems.

My beliefs and view of life had changed a lot after that experience; I learnt how the life could be harsh sometimes. The idea of surrender was always going on in my mind, and I felt despair many times, but I keep pushing forward, all of that just strengthen me. Failure is the key for success, and being patient is the secret to solve problems. Now I have the power to face my difficulties, and became a person anyone could rely upon him.