Here is my essay for Amherst...Please read over it and let me know what you think! I'm worried it may sound so cliched. Thanks in advance!!
As an Asian female from a disadvantaged background, I often find myself struggling between my individuality and the stereotyped beliefs of East Asian culture and Western culture. I have realized that societal views of Asian females place a glass ceiling on how women, especially Asian Americans, should behave. Society, friends, teachers, and neighbors expect me to be a compliant, quiet, and non-opinionated girl who has a perfect grade. Even my own family members reinforce the existing stereotypes; my conservative parents or grandparents advise me to stay home and become an obedient housewife. Although I am far from meeting that expectation or rather that stereotyped belief, I am surprised and frustrated by my subconscious effort to fit the mold set by society or to legitimize my mistakes based on those stereotypes.
Despite society's expectations and my own subconscious endeavors to fit into that stereotyped mold, I hope to pursue my life-long dream of becoming an international health expert. I believe I will be able to rise above societal definitions with a consistent effort to fight against the danger of prejudices that still exist in the 21st Century. Although it may be a long fight as the socially constructed perceptions are not limited to a tangible realm, I am confident in my ability to make a difference, especially for children whose dreams are undermined by societal definition. Children are our future. If children can grow up without the fetters of stereotyped beliefs, then in a couple decades, our society will no longer be subjected to or subject individuals to self-fulfilling prophecies that often marginalize children's dream.
As an Asian female from a disadvantaged background, I often find myself struggling between my individuality and the stereotyped beliefs of East Asian culture and Western culture. I have realized that societal views of Asian females place a glass ceiling on how women, especially Asian Americans, should behave. Society, friends, teachers, and neighbors expect me to be a compliant, quiet, and non-opinionated girl who has a perfect grade. Even my own family members reinforce the existing stereotypes; my conservative parents or grandparents advise me to stay home and become an obedient housewife. Although I am far from meeting that expectation or rather that stereotyped belief, I am surprised and frustrated by my subconscious effort to fit the mold set by society or to legitimize my mistakes based on those stereotypes.
Despite society's expectations and my own subconscious endeavors to fit into that stereotyped mold, I hope to pursue my life-long dream of becoming an international health expert. I believe I will be able to rise above societal definitions with a consistent effort to fight against the danger of prejudices that still exist in the 21st Century. Although it may be a long fight as the socially constructed perceptions are not limited to a tangible realm, I am confident in my ability to make a difference, especially for children whose dreams are undermined by societal definition. Children are our future. If children can grow up without the fetters of stereotyped beliefs, then in a couple decades, our society will no longer be subjected to or subject individuals to self-fulfilling prophecies that often marginalize children's dream.