Writing Feedback / Social life rather than job can offer me the true happiness [10]

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Your job has more effect on your happiness than your social life does.
Both my job and social life are significant parts of my life; job provides me with the economic foundation and social life can enrich my physical and spiritual life. But considering that during my social life I can stay with people who are important to me, and expand my living circle, I disagree with the statement, and I think social life can bring me more happiness.

To start with, in my social life, I am able to spend time accompanying with my families and friends. As the saying goes: "family is the harbour of your soul, and friends are the arms of your career," when I am staying with my family, I could feel a sense of belonging, I feel safe and warm at that time, while this feeling will never exist in working. In addition, I like go out with my friends, maybe to chat with my friends about interesting affairs, or just hang around in the shopping mall without buying anything. Especially on Friday night, I feel that I am just like a bird rushing out of the birdcage and flying in the sky, I could feel a sense of freedom, and relax. While on the Monday morning, I would say the same thing like Garfield: "I hate Monday."

In addition, social life makes my world colorful. When I am on vacation, I can travel around to appreciate the beautiful scenery and taste the delicious local food, when I am on weekends, I can go to the KTV to sing my favourite songs with my friends, when I am off the work, I can take the dance class or just walk through the park to air myself. Definitely, there are only small parts of my social life, but when it is time to work, all I can do is work, and work again.

Aren't there any benefit or happiness of working? Of course the answer is yes, that after overcome some difficulties, I realize my personal value and feel good and proud of myself, also, when I get promotion, I would be so happy and cheers with my family. However, most of the time the job is just a tool of me to pursue a satisfying and abundant social life.

In sum, although my job enables me to realize my personal value and provide me economic foundation, in view of the time that I spend with the ones important to me, and every moment that I enjoy myself, I find that social life rather than job can offer me the true happiness.

Writing Feedback / TOPIC:disagree or agree-it is impossible to be completely honest with your friend. [2]

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Children are always told to be an honest person when they grown up, and the story of "the wolf is coming" is popular unfailing, but however, considering the probable negative feelings of friends an I after the truth exposed, I don't agree with the statement, and I think it is unadvisable to be completely honest with my friends.

To begin, have you ever hear a term called "white lies?" It means, if your true word may hurt your friends or cause an even worse situation, it is better for you to think secondly about what to say then. Virtually, it is a good word. For example, when your friends is wearing an expensive ceremonial dress and preparing to perform on the stage, will you tell her that this dress is actually ugly and you have ever seen it in the supermarket? Of course you won't, because if you tell her the truth, her performance will probably facing a discount, and so do your friendship. Thus, it is necessary to consider others' feelings, and make a appropriate decision whether to be honest this time.

Apart from your friends, your own feeling is also important. As the old Chinese saying goes: "family scandal should not be broadcast," which means every one in the families has his or her own secrets, and there is no need for them to speak out, and in turn hurt themselves. This point is easy to understand that if you are a normal person, will you tell your teacher that you are going to cheat in the next day's exam?

Aren't there any benefit of telling the truth? On every condition the answer will be yes. Honesty is a precious quality which can make your friendship stronger and pure, and only by exchange your true feelings and thoughts with each other, will you obtain a "heart to heart" friend of life. Consequence, most of the time we should be a honest person.

In sum, although honesty is a precious and important quality of human beings, when telling the truth may cause bad effect and hurt your relationship with your friend, or your true word is private about your family, it is better for you not to be completely honest with your friends.

Writing Feedback / Colleges shouldn't offer more courses to prepare students; 'value system' [2]

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TOPIC:Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? Colleges or Universities should offer more courses to prepare students for the future before they start working.

Have you ever seen the spectacular scene in the career fair? Job competitions are indeed fierce, that most of the undergraduates in China are currently dealing with one problem: Unemployment. Therefore, many colleges and universities come up with a way to improve the employment rates of their graduates: offering job preparations. While, considering the impact on schools and students, I think it is not a good idea.

To start with, the strength of schools is influenced from two aspects. Hard power, firstly, is hurt by holding so many preparation programs, since all these programs cost money. As is known to all that schools' funding is limited, and most parts of it should be put into scientific research. Thus if paying to much attention to those job preparations, the research development speed will slow down. Also, those programs can contaminate the pure academic atmosphere. The main purpose of education should be to provide students with a value system, a standard, a set of ideas, not to provide them with a certain job. Hence, students will be misled by those preparation, and schools' soft power in return is diminished. These two aspects tell us that for the schools' future, job preparations should be canceled.

Job preparations also cause harm to some students. As a matter of fact, not all students are preparing to enter the society after graduation; some might choose to pursue their master and doctor degree, some might be willing to take one year off and travel around to increase their life experiences, others may already have their own opinions about starting a new business. In either case, it would be better for schools to set them free rather than demand them to attend the preparations.

Aren't there any benefit of organizing such job preparations? Of course the answer will be yes, that with the help of the schools, students could find their jobs easily. They could learn many useful and practical knowledge about how to survive in the cruel competitions of employment, they would be taught the appropriate business manners which are beneficial to their future work, but lives have to go on by themselves, and to some degree the effect of job preparations is not that much.

In sum, although the job preparations are well-intended, they are detrimental to the schools power and are useless to some of the students. Considering those factors, it would not advisable for colleges and universities to offer students the job preparations before they start working.