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Commonapp-How a trivial jealousy led to an epiphany on expectations in life



BIN157 4 / 16  
Nov 30, 2010   #1
I haven't thought of a proper prompt yet though :(

At the time of writing, I have approximately 6,877,200,000 jealousies and counting. I am jealous with everyone. On. This. Earth.

The moment I walked into my new class in Singapore, I was already envious of my Singaporean classmates. To my untrained ears, they all spoke English with such perfection, eloquence and sophistication that conveniently destroyed my confidence with English and cruelly strangled whatever syllable in my throat. To compensate for this, I vowed to read as many novels as possible in an attempt to force-feed my vocabulary with bombastic words with which I could sound refined when I speak and write. Even when my local teachers did not have much faith in foreign scholars' ability in English and Literature. Even when my fellow scholars "got their focus right" and went on to win all kinds of prizes in science, while I was still stuck in a rut, trying to wrestle with the task of not falling asleep reading Wuthering Heights. My jealousy got the better of me.

I became weary of this jealousy after a while. It was not that I thought reading classic novels would not aid in my learning of the language, but I would have liked the process to be more enjoyable. I had always had no patience with novels, especially those with generic plots and little relevance to the modern life, and thought that their only audiences were those sentimental people, who had too much free time in their hands to weep for fictional people with whom they had no business with whatsoever. However, now that I had set up this task, I felt obligated to follow it through, which meant submitting to more boredom and putting up with my roommates' constant nagging about my tendency to leave the light on and read novels before I slept and deny them the chance to put their blankets on and sleep before I did.

Naturally, I felt jealous with "those sentimental people", who could appreciate the beauty of novels but whom I used to despise. Looking through the internet to find scathing Wuthering Heights reviews that would justify my boredom, I found myself instead err in the opposite direction. Apparently, the pain and anguish portrayed have intrigued millions of people around the world. I was amazed by the emotional impact it has on past readers. I was equally fascinated by how such a simple plot could be effectively harnessed to embody complex themes, if literary analysis on Sparksnotes was to be trusted. However, I read it the second time, and still, Wuthering Heights could not be listed in the (empty) Favorite Books section under my Facebook page's Info tab. I was horribly jealous of those people for possessing all sorts of intuitions, sensations and perceptions that I so happened to lack, but at the same time, was surprised by my sudden interest in literary analysis.

I was scouring the internet to find ways to improve my emotional faculty when I realized that apparently novels often have multiple different interpretations, and that reviewers recount different experiences when reading the same text. Something in the ambiguous nature of novels appealed to me, as I realized that reading novels, unlike studying science, has room for all kinds of explanations, which allowed for these countless debates and unique responses, and one is not forced to follow anyone's particular opinion. Moreover, it seemed to me that only a person who has gone through a heartbreaking isolation from his or her loved one could absorb the intensity of Heathcliff's love for Catherine. Yes, you need experiences to be able to have that emotional journey when reading novels. Therefore, I set off on my new quest: to gain as many life experiences as possible. This quest has been fulfilling. Naturally, I grew increasingly interested in novels and the arts.

There was a time when I scorned a quote that says, "The secret of happiness is not in doing what you like but in liking what you do". I thought it only taught us to settle with what we have and prevented us from realizing our full ability, and so I thought a life of jealousy was ideal. However, I realized that an ideal life should comprise a complex interplay of those two factors, jealousy and settlement. We need jealousy to motivate us to stretch ourselves and push for that lofty goal, but we also need settlement to give us the resilience needed to reach it. And I hope I have found that perfect combination. (749 words)

Thank you all so much:)

EVEH 1 / 2  
Nov 30, 2010   #2
"I am jealous with everyone. On. This. Earth." better if you write it this way: I am jelous of everyone on Earth.

"I had always had no patience with novels" : I have never had patience with novels.
OP BIN157 4 / 16  
Nov 30, 2010   #3
heh thanks for your comment:). I put the "had had no patience" to imply that that thing was in the past actually :).
But do you have any comment on the content? That's what Im most worried about=(
OP BIN157 4 / 16  
Dec 2, 2010   #4
Hi sorry for bringing this thread up again but can I have other suggestions? :)
hoangdaochu 1 / 1  
Dec 2, 2010   #5
The ability of your wording amazed me.

However, I'm not sure that I grasp the main idea of your writing. Should the title be: How jealousy stretch myself/someone; or How did I become so interested in literature and arts; or Jealousy and Settlement - two of a kind...?

- You did opened nicely about the notion of jealousy, but I'm not completely convinced with the settlement thing idea

- The 2nd-to-last paragraph is a dilution to me.
EF_Kevin 8 / 13053  
Dec 16, 2010   #6
...whatever syllable was in my throat
or
whatever syllable arose from my throat.

Verb tense:... could sound refined when I spoke and wrote. speak and write .

This sentence is incomplete: Even when my local teachers did not have much faith in foreign scholars' ability in English and Literature.
I'll add a predicate for the sentence:
I struggled diligently even when my local teachers did not have much faith in foreign scholars' ability in English and Literature.

Same here, incomplete: Even when my fellow scholars "got their focus right" and went on to win all kinds of prizes in science, while I was still stuck in a rut, trying to wrestle with the task of not falling asleep reading Wuthering Heights.

To make it complete, use a dash:
I struggled diligently even when my local teachers did not have much faith in foreign scholars' ability in English and Literature -- even when my ...

or a comma:
I struggled diligently even when my local teachers did not have much faith in foreign scholars' ability in English and Literature, even when my ...

But anyway, that is not a big deal. It is just something I wanted to talk about a little. You write very, very well!

Capitalize Internet. It is a proper noun.

However, I realized that an ideal life should comprise a complex interplay of those two factors, jealousy and settlement. ---absolutely brilliant.

Essays do not get better than this essay. It's very meaningful, and I am smarter after reading it. :-)
OP BIN157 4 / 16  
Dec 25, 2010   #7
Thank you Kevin:-) I really hope that this essay can make a good impression on admission officers. I'm editing this essay according to your advices and will submit this as my essay for commonapp:)
thindust 1 / 6  
Dec 25, 2010   #8
Hello! I'm from Singapore myself! I gathered you are not local and may not have really enjoyed your time here with that jealousy you wrote about. Well, I really hope it has been a better experience so far!

I love that I could hear your voice through your essay - that's important. I can feel the jealousy and most importantly, the drive to get the better of it. However, I too agree that it took me only until the last paragraph to fully comprehend where the essay is going.

Here's my input for your last paragraph (:

There was a time when I scorned a quote that says, "The secret of happiness is not in doing what you like but in liking what you do". I thought it only taught us to settle with what we have and prevented us from realizing our full ability, and so I thought a life of jealousy was ideal. (Will be good to draw a link to how does jealousy lead to this ideal. Much like how you said to motivate. Perhaps "so I thought a life of jealousy was ideal to drive one to maximise his potential".) However, I realized that an ideal life should comprise a complex interplay of those two factors, jealousy and settlement. We need jealousy to motivate us to stretch ourselves and push for that lofty goal, but we also need settlement to give us the resilience needed to reach it. And I hope I have found that perfect combination.

I sense a bit of self-doubt as it ends with "I hope I have". It might be just me though. It's ultimately your voice, but here're some suggestions: "The perfect combination is how I shall strive to lead my life", "The perfect combination is what I had sought after", "This perfect combination shall drive me for years to come" - along those lines. Notice that my suggestions start with "The perfect combination", this is so "The perfect combination - jealousy and settlement" is brought into greater emphasis, because I think this might help end the essay on a more powerful note. I hope it still conveys what you had intended the last line to though.

Others:

Looking through the internet to find scathing Wuthering Heights reviews that would justify my boredom, I found myself instead err in the opposite direction.

--- ^ "Err" is probably not the right word here as it suggests a mistake in your "opposite direction". I believe you meant to convey "I found myself instead mistaken" or you can also try "I have instead found myself immersed in a world (pardon this, it is clearly not the best word here) different from what I had expected"

I was scouring the internet to find ways to improve my emotional faculty
--- ^ I am not clear what you mean here.

Therefore, I set off on my new quest: to gain as many life experiences as possible. This quest has been fulfilling. Naturally , I grew increasingly interested in novels and the arts.

--- ^ You might want to draw the link. eg "I set off on my new quest: to gain as many life experiences as possible, to connect myself to these novels". Otherwise it is hard to see how "naturally" comes about. I can see what you wish to put across, though it takes some deciphering through that awkward phrasing. I would try "My interest in novels and the arts grew as I became increasingly connected with them" after drawing the link as mentioned above.
OP BIN157 4 / 16  
Dec 30, 2010   #9
Haha thanks Ning, I may be jealous with Singaporeans but Im not bitter about it :) Thank you so so much for your constructive feedback :DD. May I know which JC you are from? :P


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