Unanswered [1] | Urgent [0]
  

Home / Undergraduate   % width   Posts: 11


The final battle; with the winner coming out with her life - Stanford Supplement



CVP1993 3 / 10  
Jan 1, 2012   #1
-Any input is welcome! This is due in exactly 59 minutes!!!
-I am like 260 characters over the 2,000 limit so any elimination tips are also welcome!
-I don't really like my conclusion, I know it needs work...
-Be brutal & don't sugarcoat!!
Prompt: Stanford students possess an intellectual vitality. Reflect on an idea or experience that has been important to your intellectual development.

My mother was not a very strict parent overall, but when it came to school; there was no room for any dissention from her rules. School came first, no matter what was going on. This no-nonsense type of attitude that my mother held within her was engrained in not just me, but all three of my older sisters as well. Aside from the difficulties of raising four children alone, one of those having an extreme mental disability, my mother was also in the midst of her own battle. Being that I was probably only eight years old when my mother was diagnosed with cancer, a lot of the details of her condition were kept a secret from me. And a well-kept one too, until I could start putting two and two together, and became attentive enough to see the outward effects the disease was having on her body. My mother had been facing uterine cancer for 5 years when it metastasized to her lungs in what would be their final battle; the winner coming out with her life. While I could never really forget that my mother had cancer, I did my best to avoid thinking about the outcome that we knew could come at any time. This involved silent trips to the hospital; engrossed in magazines and books for hours while her chemotherapy went on, turning my head away whenever her shirt would droop, revealing her portacath doctors had installed to make chemo easier, and adhering to whatever she asked of me, without question. My mother died on the fourth day of October in two-thousand and six, five days before my thirteenth birthday. While I was devastated, when I left my mother's funeral, the day after my birthday, I knew that I was already a different person. Harboring a desire to make my mother proud no matter what, I knew I had to put my focus on academics. So focus I did. I poured endless time into challenging myself with difficult classes and trying to get good grades. Although my mother's death was hard for me to deal with, it is what pushed me to strive harder for things academically and also altered my thinking. I know now that hard work is what brings about desirable outcomes, not wishful thinking. Moreover, her death sparked a new hunger within me that I find myself constantly trying to feed the more I learn. A hunger that I hope is never satisfied.

ekreal 6 / 35  
Jan 1, 2012   #2
OMG that is such a good essay, I almost started crying. I just can't have it when young people loose their mothers. But anyways flow is great and I even thought the conclusion was really good, why don't you?

Such a shame you have to shorten it, I can see how that's difficult. If would try to cut something out in the beginning. You could delete but all three of my older sisters as well. And I mean you could leave out the sentence, and adhering to whatever she asked me.. All I could come up with right now.. Hope it helps a little bit.. And don't you just have to submit it by 11.59 pacific time?? that's what the e-mail I got from them said :)
saurabh93 11 / 94  
Jan 1, 2012   #3
This is a very touching subject, and you did great in talking about how your personal tragedy helped you focus in the academics.
Nice flow, also.
Good Luck, and PLEASE help me with my Stanford essays! :)
OP CVP1993 3 / 10  
Jan 1, 2012   #4
Thank you all so much! I really do appreciate your suggestions and comments =) I wish you guys both luck with your apps too!!!
ekreal 6 / 35  
Jan 1, 2012   #5
No prob. Did you submit? I am applying as well, and I just submitted my application and then it says it was submitted on the 01/02/12, but it is still the 01?? Should I be worried :S ?
OP CVP1993 3 / 10  
Jan 1, 2012   #6
Oh no, you're fine! I just submitted mine too and as long as it says 01/02/12 (January 1, 2012) you're fine! =)
ekreal 6 / 35  
Jan 1, 2012   #7
Where does yours say (January 1, 2012)?
Mazinator 1 / 6  
Jan 2, 2012   #8
it is still Jan 1st for them in Cali..thats why its ok..they are 3 hours behind.
ekreal 6 / 35  
Jan 2, 2012   #9
Yeah I live in California, just don't get why the system says 01/02/2012, but I guess it's all good :) Thx!
AbsoluteBliss 5 / 13  
Jan 2, 2012   #10
Great, essay. One recommendation: "And a well-kept one too, until I could started putting two and two together, and became attentive enough to see the outward effects the disease was having on her body."
lenaincanada 1 / 2  
Jan 4, 2012   #11
CVP1993
hi, l am so shake when l hear u story, l am sure u mother would be pround of u!!
however, u essay was great. although there has some spelling wrong which is not a big problem.
anyway, good luck for u application!!!


Home / Undergraduate / The final battle; with the winner coming out with her life - Stanford Supplement
Need Writing or Editing Help?
Fill out one of these forms:

Graduate Writing / Editing:
GraduateWriter form ◳

Best Essay Service:
CustomPapers form ◳

Excellence in Editing:
Rose Editing ◳

AI-Paper Rewriting:
Robot Rewrite ◳

Academic AI Writer:
Custom AI Writer ◳