Divorce is a significant life event that profoundly affects all members of a family, especially children. As divorce rates continue to rise globally, an increasing number of children are experiencing the dissolution of their parents' marriage, which brings about various challenges in their development. Divorce profoundly impacts children's emotional well-being, psychological health, social interactions, and academic performance, leading to increased feelings of sadness, anxiety, and anger, a heightened risk of depression and behavioral issues, challenges in forming and maintaining relationships, and a decline in academic performance and aspirations, thereby significantly influencing their overall childhood development and future potential. Understanding these impacts is crucial in providing the necessary support to help children navigate this difficult transition and mitigate the negative consequences on their development.
Divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage by a court or other competent body, marking the end of a marital relationship and the legal ties that bind the couple. It involves various legal processes and arrangements, such as division of assets, child custody, and support agreements. In recent decades, divorce rates have been steadily increasing across the globe. In the United States, for example, the divorce rate stands at approximately 40-50% for first marriages and even higher for subsequent marriages (American Psychological Association, 2018). "Many studies have determined that children living in high-conflict, but "intact" families grow up with more problems than children from low-conflict, divorced families" (Nueman,16). These statistics highlight the growing prevalence of divorce and underscore the importance of understanding its impacts, particularly on children who are often the most vulnerable in these situations.
Emotional turmoil is among the most acute effects of divorce on children. A parent's withdrawal from them might frequently leave one feeling lost, perplexed, and depressed. The uncertainties and changes in their family structure can cause anxiety and sadness in children. Depending on the child's age, personality, and the degree of parental disagreement, these emotional reactions can change. Children of divorced parents often experience a range of intense emotions that can last for extended periods. One of the most common emotional responses is a profound sense of sadness and grief. The dissolution of their parents' marriage can be akin to mourning a significant loss, as children lose the family structure and sense of security they once knew. This sadness can manifest in various ways, such as frequent crying, withdrawal from activities they once enjoyed, and a pervasive sense of unhappiness that can permeate their daily lives.
In addition to sadness, many children experience heightened levels of anxiety and stress following their parents' divorce. The uncertainty surrounding their future, changes in living arrangements, and shifts in daily routines contribute to heightened anxiety. Children may worry about their parents' well-being, financial stability, and their own place within the new family structure (Kelly & Emery, 2003). This ongoing stress can lead to sleep disturbances, difficulty concentrating, and physical symptoms such as headaches and stomachaches, further complicating their emotional state.
Anger and resentment are also common emotional reactions among children of divorced parents. Feelings of anger and resentment often develop towards one or both parents. Children might blame themselves or their parents for the divorce, leading to internal conflicts and strained relationships (Lansford, 2009). They may direct their anger towards one or both parents, feeling betrayed or abandoned by the dissolution of the family unit. This anger can be exacerbated if the divorce is contentious or if the child feels caught in the middle of parental conflicts. Resentment may also stem from feelings of powerlessness and a lack of control over their circumstances. Over time, these unresolved feelings can strain the parent-child relationship and hinder the child's emotional development.
Divorce can lead to an increase in behavioral problems. Children might exhibit aggression, defiance, and other conduct issues as they struggle to cope with their new reality (Hetherington & Elmore, 2003). Understanding and addressing the emotional impacts of divorce on children is crucial for helping them navigate the difficult transition of their parents' separation. Recognizing the intense feelings of sadness, anxiety, and anger that children experience allows parents, educators, and counselors to provide targeted support and interventions. By acknowledging these emotions, adults can validate the child's feelings, making them feel heard and understood, which is a vital step in emotional healing.
Providing a supportive and stable environment is fundamental in mitigating the negative emotional effects of divorce. Consistency in daily routines, clear communication, and the presence of a reliable caregiver can offer children a sense of security amidst the upheaval. Stability in their living arrangements, school environment, and social activities helps children regain a sense of normalcy, reducing feelings of anxiety and uncertainty. Additionally, open and honest communication about the divorce, tailored to the child's age and understanding, can alleviate fears and misconceptions they may have about the situation.
Access to counseling and emotional support is another critical component in addressing the emotional impacts of divorce. Professional counseling provides a safe space for children to express their feelings and learn coping strategies. Therapists can help children process their emotions, develop resilience, and build healthy relationships. Group therapy or support groups specifically for children of divorced parents can also be beneficial, as they allow children to connect with peers going through similar experiences, reducing feelings of isolation and providing mutual support.
Parents play a pivotal role in supporting their children's emotional development during and after divorce. "Children's whose parents put them first from the start have a tremendous advantage over those whose parents cannot separate their feelings about their failed marriage from their feelings about the co-parenting partnership that will last the rest of their lives" (Emery,6). Demonstrating cooperative co-parenting, where both parents work together to prioritize the child's well-being, can significantly reduce the emotional stress on the child. Parents should strive to keep conflicts away from the children and ensure that they do not feel caught in the middle. Encouraging the child's relationship with both parents and providing reassurances of love and support from both sides can help stabilize the child's emotional state. "Children can emerge from divorce emotionally healthy and resilient, but it takes conscientious effort, sometimes a heroic one, on the part of parents to manage the personal and legal business of divorce in a responsible, adult manner. Protecting their children demands that parents deal with their own anger, hurt, grief, fear, and longing on a schedule dictated by their children's needs, not their own" (Emery, 5).
The psychological consequences of divorce on children can be profound and long-lasting, significantly affecting their mental health and development. "Regardless of age, gender, and culture, children of divorced parents experience increased psychological problems" (Morin, 2022). One of the most concerning psychological impacts is the heightened risk of depression. The stress and emotional turmoil resulting from their parents' separation can lead to persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest in activities they once enjoyed. Children may also experience changes in appetite and sleep patterns, irritability, and difficulty concentrating, all of which are common symptoms of depression. This increased vulnerability to depression underscores the importance of early intervention and ongoing psychological support for children navigating the aftermath of divorce.
Behavioral issues are another significant psychological impact of divorce on children. The disruption and instability in their lives can manifest as aggression, defiance, and other conduct problems. Children might act out at home or in school as a way to express their frustration and anger or to seek attention and reassurance from their parents. These behavioral issues can strain relationships with family members, teachers, and peers, creating a cycle of negative interactions that further exacerbate the child's emotional distress. Addressing these behavioral problems through counseling, consistent discipline, and positive reinforcement can help children develop healthier coping mechanisms and improve their overall psychological well-being.
Divorce can also have long-term effects on children's self-esteem and identity. As they navigate the changes in their family dynamics, children may struggle with feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. They might internalize the divorce, believing that they are somehow to blame for their parents' separation. This can lead to a diminished sense of self-worth and difficulties in forming a stable and positive self-identity. Adolescents may experience identity struggles as they try to make sense of their place within the new family structure and their evolving roles and relationships. Supporting children in building their self-esteem and identity through affirmations, positive role models, and opportunities for personal growth is crucial for their psychological development.
Another psychological impact of divorce is the potential for attachment issues. The breakdown of the family unit can disrupt the child's sense of security and attachment, leading to difficulties in forming and maintaining healthy relationships in the future. Children who experience divorce may develop a fear of abandonment and a reluctance to trust others, which can persist into adulthood. These attachment issues can affect their ability to form intimate relationships and maintain long-term partnerships. Providing children with a stable and nurturing environment, along with fostering open and honest communication, can help rebuild their sense of trust and security.
Finally, the psychological impact of divorce on children can also include increased stress and anxiety. The changes in their family structure, living arrangements, and daily routines can create a sense of instability and uncertainty. Children may worry about the future, their relationships with both parents, and their own place within the new family dynamic. This heightened stress and anxiety can interfere with their ability to focus on school, extracurricular activities, and social interactions, further affecting their overall development. Providing children with reassurance, stability, and coping strategies can help alleviate their anxiety and support their psychological resilience.
Children who have experienced their parents' divorce may find it challenging to trust others. The breakdown of their parents' relationship can lead to fears of abandonment and betrayal, making it harder for them to form close, trusting relationships with friends and future romantic partners (Amato, 2010). Divorce significantly affects children's social lives, influencing their ability to form and maintain relationships, their interactions with peers, and their overall social development. The changes in family dynamics and living arrangements can lead to various social challenges that may persist throughout their lives.
One of the primary social impacts of divorce on children is the disruption of their family structure. Divorce can sometimes carry a social stigma, particularly in communities where traditional family structures are highly valued. Children from divorced families may feel embarrassed or ashamed, leading to social withdrawal and isolation. Peer pressure and teasing about their family situation can further exacerbate these feelings, negatively affecting their self-esteem and social interactions (Furstenberg & Kiernan, 2001). When parents divorce, children often must adjust to new living arrangements, which can include moving to a new home, splitting time between parents, or living in a single-parent household. These changes can be destabilizing and can interrupt the child's social life, ca using them to lose touch with friends and familiar social networks. The instability may lead to difficulties in establishing and maintaining friendships, as children may feel insecure about their home life and hesitant to form new relationships.
The stress and emotional turmoil of divorce can strain sibling relationships. While some siblings may become closer as they rely on each other for support, others may experience increased conflict and rivalry. The way siblings navigate their relationship during and after divorce can significantly impact their social development and emotional well-being (Hetherington, 1999). While some siblings may become closer, relying on each other for support during this turbulent time, others may experience increased conflict and rivalry. The way siblings navigate their relationship during and after the divorce can significantly impact their social development and emotional well-being. Siblings who support each other can provide a sense of continuity and stability, whereas those who experience increased conflict may face additional social and emotional challenges.
While divorce can negatively impact social interactions, it can also encourage children to develop coping mechanisms and seek support from peers. Some children may become more resilient and resourceful, learning to navigate social challenges independently. Peer support groups and counseling can provide valuable opportunities for children to share their experiences and build supportive relationships with others who understand their situation (Pedro-Carroll, 2005).
One of the most significant mitigating factors is strong parental support. When parents actively provide emotional reassurance and consistent care, children are more likely to feel secure and valued despite the changes in their family structure. Parents can foster a sense of stability by maintaining open lines of communication, allowing children to express their feelings and concerns freely. By validating their children's emotions and providing comfort and understanding, parents can help mitigate the emotional distress associated with divorce. Moreover, maintaining routines and traditions can help children feel a sense of continuity and normalcy.
Access to counseling and therapeutic services is another crucial factor in mitigating the negative impacts of divorce on children. Counseling and therapy provide essential support for children, helping them process their emotions and adjust to the changes. Professional help can guide children through their feelings and teach them coping strategies (Pedro-Carroll, 2005). Professional counselors and therapists can offer children a safe space to process their emotions and develop healthy coping strategies. Individual therapy can address specific emotional and psychological issues, while group therapy can provide support through shared experiences with peers facing similar challenges. These therapeutic interventions can reduce feelings of isolation, promote resilience, and help children build the skills necessary to manage stress and emotional turmoil.
Cooperative co-parenting is also essential in mitigating the adverse effects of divorce. Consistent and supportive parental involvement is crucial. When parents remain actively involved in their children's lives and provide emotional support, children are more likely to cope effectively with the changes (Hetherington, 1999). This involves minimizing conflict and maintaining respectful communication between co-parents, which reduces the stress and anxiety children might feel when caught in the middle of parental disputes. By presenting a united front and making joint decisions about their children's well-being, co-parents can create a more supportive and consistent upbringing, helping children adjust more smoothly to the new family dynamics.
A stable living environment is another critical mitigating factor. Stability in housing, schooling, and daily routines can provide children with a sense of security amidst the changes brought by divorce. Ensuring that children have a consistent and predictable schedule helps them know what to expect, reducing uncertainty and anxiety. Stability in their social environment, including maintaining relationships with extended family, friends, and community support systems, can also help children feel more grounded and less isolated.
Schools and communities can also play a supportive role in mitigating the effects of divorce on children. Educators and school counselors can monitor children's behavior and academic performance, offering additional support when needed. Schools can provide safe spaces for children to discuss their feelings and access resources that help them cope with the changes in their family life. Community organizations can offer programs and activities that promote social interaction and emotional well-being, giving children opportunities to engage in positive and supportive environments.
Divorce profoundly affects children's emotional, psychological, social, and academic development, highlighting the importance of addressing their needs during and after the divorce process. Emotionally, children often experience increased sadness, anxiety, and anger. Psychologically, they face higher risks of depression, behavioral issues, and identity struggles. Socially, they encounter difficulties in forming relationships, trust issues, and social isolation. Academically, their performance often declines, with lower grades, increased absenteeism, and reduced educational aspirations. Mitigating these negative effects is crucial. Parental support plays a vital role in helping children cope with the changes brought by divorce. Counseling and therapy provide essential emotional and psychological support, while maintaining stable routines and environments helps children adjust and provides a sense of security. Continued research is necessary to better understand and address the impacts of divorce on children. Developing and implementing support systems and programs for children and families during and after divorce is essential. A holistic approach to supporting children's development during and after parental divorce is crucial, as it helps them overcome challenges and build resilience. With the right support and interventions, children can navigate the difficulties of divorce and continue to thrive in their development.
Divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage by a court or other competent body, marking the end of a marital relationship and the legal ties that bind the couple. It involves various legal processes and arrangements, such as division of assets, child custody, and support agreements. In recent decades, divorce rates have been steadily increasing across the globe. In the United States, for example, the divorce rate stands at approximately 40-50% for first marriages and even higher for subsequent marriages (American Psychological Association, 2018). "Many studies have determined that children living in high-conflict, but "intact" families grow up with more problems than children from low-conflict, divorced families" (Nueman,16). These statistics highlight the growing prevalence of divorce and underscore the importance of understanding its impacts, particularly on children who are often the most vulnerable in these situations.
Emotional turmoil is among the most acute effects of divorce on children. A parent's withdrawal from them might frequently leave one feeling lost, perplexed, and depressed. The uncertainties and changes in their family structure can cause anxiety and sadness in children. Depending on the child's age, personality, and the degree of parental disagreement, these emotional reactions can change. Children of divorced parents often experience a range of intense emotions that can last for extended periods. One of the most common emotional responses is a profound sense of sadness and grief. The dissolution of their parents' marriage can be akin to mourning a significant loss, as children lose the family structure and sense of security they once knew. This sadness can manifest in various ways, such as frequent crying, withdrawal from activities they once enjoyed, and a pervasive sense of unhappiness that can permeate their daily lives.
In addition to sadness, many children experience heightened levels of anxiety and stress following their parents' divorce. The uncertainty surrounding their future, changes in living arrangements, and shifts in daily routines contribute to heightened anxiety. Children may worry about their parents' well-being, financial stability, and their own place within the new family structure (Kelly & Emery, 2003). This ongoing stress can lead to sleep disturbances, difficulty concentrating, and physical symptoms such as headaches and stomachaches, further complicating their emotional state.
Anger and resentment are also common emotional reactions among children of divorced parents. Feelings of anger and resentment often develop towards one or both parents. Children might blame themselves or their parents for the divorce, leading to internal conflicts and strained relationships (Lansford, 2009). They may direct their anger towards one or both parents, feeling betrayed or abandoned by the dissolution of the family unit. This anger can be exacerbated if the divorce is contentious or if the child feels caught in the middle of parental conflicts. Resentment may also stem from feelings of powerlessness and a lack of control over their circumstances. Over time, these unresolved feelings can strain the parent-child relationship and hinder the child's emotional development.
Divorce can lead to an increase in behavioral problems. Children might exhibit aggression, defiance, and other conduct issues as they struggle to cope with their new reality (Hetherington & Elmore, 2003). Understanding and addressing the emotional impacts of divorce on children is crucial for helping them navigate the difficult transition of their parents' separation. Recognizing the intense feelings of sadness, anxiety, and anger that children experience allows parents, educators, and counselors to provide targeted support and interventions. By acknowledging these emotions, adults can validate the child's feelings, making them feel heard and understood, which is a vital step in emotional healing.
Providing a supportive and stable environment is fundamental in mitigating the negative emotional effects of divorce. Consistency in daily routines, clear communication, and the presence of a reliable caregiver can offer children a sense of security amidst the upheaval. Stability in their living arrangements, school environment, and social activities helps children regain a sense of normalcy, reducing feelings of anxiety and uncertainty. Additionally, open and honest communication about the divorce, tailored to the child's age and understanding, can alleviate fears and misconceptions they may have about the situation.
Access to counseling and emotional support is another critical component in addressing the emotional impacts of divorce. Professional counseling provides a safe space for children to express their feelings and learn coping strategies. Therapists can help children process their emotions, develop resilience, and build healthy relationships. Group therapy or support groups specifically for children of divorced parents can also be beneficial, as they allow children to connect with peers going through similar experiences, reducing feelings of isolation and providing mutual support.
Parents play a pivotal role in supporting their children's emotional development during and after divorce. "Children's whose parents put them first from the start have a tremendous advantage over those whose parents cannot separate their feelings about their failed marriage from their feelings about the co-parenting partnership that will last the rest of their lives" (Emery,6). Demonstrating cooperative co-parenting, where both parents work together to prioritize the child's well-being, can significantly reduce the emotional stress on the child. Parents should strive to keep conflicts away from the children and ensure that they do not feel caught in the middle. Encouraging the child's relationship with both parents and providing reassurances of love and support from both sides can help stabilize the child's emotional state. "Children can emerge from divorce emotionally healthy and resilient, but it takes conscientious effort, sometimes a heroic one, on the part of parents to manage the personal and legal business of divorce in a responsible, adult manner. Protecting their children demands that parents deal with their own anger, hurt, grief, fear, and longing on a schedule dictated by their children's needs, not their own" (Emery, 5).
The psychological consequences of divorce on children can be profound and long-lasting, significantly affecting their mental health and development. "Regardless of age, gender, and culture, children of divorced parents experience increased psychological problems" (Morin, 2022). One of the most concerning psychological impacts is the heightened risk of depression. The stress and emotional turmoil resulting from their parents' separation can lead to persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest in activities they once enjoyed. Children may also experience changes in appetite and sleep patterns, irritability, and difficulty concentrating, all of which are common symptoms of depression. This increased vulnerability to depression underscores the importance of early intervention and ongoing psychological support for children navigating the aftermath of divorce.
Behavioral issues are another significant psychological impact of divorce on children. The disruption and instability in their lives can manifest as aggression, defiance, and other conduct problems. Children might act out at home or in school as a way to express their frustration and anger or to seek attention and reassurance from their parents. These behavioral issues can strain relationships with family members, teachers, and peers, creating a cycle of negative interactions that further exacerbate the child's emotional distress. Addressing these behavioral problems through counseling, consistent discipline, and positive reinforcement can help children develop healthier coping mechanisms and improve their overall psychological well-being.
Divorce can also have long-term effects on children's self-esteem and identity. As they navigate the changes in their family dynamics, children may struggle with feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. They might internalize the divorce, believing that they are somehow to blame for their parents' separation. This can lead to a diminished sense of self-worth and difficulties in forming a stable and positive self-identity. Adolescents may experience identity struggles as they try to make sense of their place within the new family structure and their evolving roles and relationships. Supporting children in building their self-esteem and identity through affirmations, positive role models, and opportunities for personal growth is crucial for their psychological development.
Another psychological impact of divorce is the potential for attachment issues. The breakdown of the family unit can disrupt the child's sense of security and attachment, leading to difficulties in forming and maintaining healthy relationships in the future. Children who experience divorce may develop a fear of abandonment and a reluctance to trust others, which can persist into adulthood. These attachment issues can affect their ability to form intimate relationships and maintain long-term partnerships. Providing children with a stable and nurturing environment, along with fostering open and honest communication, can help rebuild their sense of trust and security.
Finally, the psychological impact of divorce on children can also include increased stress and anxiety. The changes in their family structure, living arrangements, and daily routines can create a sense of instability and uncertainty. Children may worry about the future, their relationships with both parents, and their own place within the new family dynamic. This heightened stress and anxiety can interfere with their ability to focus on school, extracurricular activities, and social interactions, further affecting their overall development. Providing children with reassurance, stability, and coping strategies can help alleviate their anxiety and support their psychological resilience.
Children who have experienced their parents' divorce may find it challenging to trust others. The breakdown of their parents' relationship can lead to fears of abandonment and betrayal, making it harder for them to form close, trusting relationships with friends and future romantic partners (Amato, 2010). Divorce significantly affects children's social lives, influencing their ability to form and maintain relationships, their interactions with peers, and their overall social development. The changes in family dynamics and living arrangements can lead to various social challenges that may persist throughout their lives.
One of the primary social impacts of divorce on children is the disruption of their family structure. Divorce can sometimes carry a social stigma, particularly in communities where traditional family structures are highly valued. Children from divorced families may feel embarrassed or ashamed, leading to social withdrawal and isolation. Peer pressure and teasing about their family situation can further exacerbate these feelings, negatively affecting their self-esteem and social interactions (Furstenberg & Kiernan, 2001). When parents divorce, children often must adjust to new living arrangements, which can include moving to a new home, splitting time between parents, or living in a single-parent household. These changes can be destabilizing and can interrupt the child's social life, ca using them to lose touch with friends and familiar social networks. The instability may lead to difficulties in establishing and maintaining friendships, as children may feel insecure about their home life and hesitant to form new relationships.
The stress and emotional turmoil of divorce can strain sibling relationships. While some siblings may become closer as they rely on each other for support, others may experience increased conflict and rivalry. The way siblings navigate their relationship during and after divorce can significantly impact their social development and emotional well-being (Hetherington, 1999). While some siblings may become closer, relying on each other for support during this turbulent time, others may experience increased conflict and rivalry. The way siblings navigate their relationship during and after the divorce can significantly impact their social development and emotional well-being. Siblings who support each other can provide a sense of continuity and stability, whereas those who experience increased conflict may face additional social and emotional challenges.
While divorce can negatively impact social interactions, it can also encourage children to develop coping mechanisms and seek support from peers. Some children may become more resilient and resourceful, learning to navigate social challenges independently. Peer support groups and counseling can provide valuable opportunities for children to share their experiences and build supportive relationships with others who understand their situation (Pedro-Carroll, 2005).
One of the most significant mitigating factors is strong parental support. When parents actively provide emotional reassurance and consistent care, children are more likely to feel secure and valued despite the changes in their family structure. Parents can foster a sense of stability by maintaining open lines of communication, allowing children to express their feelings and concerns freely. By validating their children's emotions and providing comfort and understanding, parents can help mitigate the emotional distress associated with divorce. Moreover, maintaining routines and traditions can help children feel a sense of continuity and normalcy.
Access to counseling and therapeutic services is another crucial factor in mitigating the negative impacts of divorce on children. Counseling and therapy provide essential support for children, helping them process their emotions and adjust to the changes. Professional help can guide children through their feelings and teach them coping strategies (Pedro-Carroll, 2005). Professional counselors and therapists can offer children a safe space to process their emotions and develop healthy coping strategies. Individual therapy can address specific emotional and psychological issues, while group therapy can provide support through shared experiences with peers facing similar challenges. These therapeutic interventions can reduce feelings of isolation, promote resilience, and help children build the skills necessary to manage stress and emotional turmoil.
Cooperative co-parenting is also essential in mitigating the adverse effects of divorce. Consistent and supportive parental involvement is crucial. When parents remain actively involved in their children's lives and provide emotional support, children are more likely to cope effectively with the changes (Hetherington, 1999). This involves minimizing conflict and maintaining respectful communication between co-parents, which reduces the stress and anxiety children might feel when caught in the middle of parental disputes. By presenting a united front and making joint decisions about their children's well-being, co-parents can create a more supportive and consistent upbringing, helping children adjust more smoothly to the new family dynamics.
A stable living environment is another critical mitigating factor. Stability in housing, schooling, and daily routines can provide children with a sense of security amidst the changes brought by divorce. Ensuring that children have a consistent and predictable schedule helps them know what to expect, reducing uncertainty and anxiety. Stability in their social environment, including maintaining relationships with extended family, friends, and community support systems, can also help children feel more grounded and less isolated.
Schools and communities can also play a supportive role in mitigating the effects of divorce on children. Educators and school counselors can monitor children's behavior and academic performance, offering additional support when needed. Schools can provide safe spaces for children to discuss their feelings and access resources that help them cope with the changes in their family life. Community organizations can offer programs and activities that promote social interaction and emotional well-being, giving children opportunities to engage in positive and supportive environments.
Divorce profoundly affects children's emotional, psychological, social, and academic development, highlighting the importance of addressing their needs during and after the divorce process. Emotionally, children often experience increased sadness, anxiety, and anger. Psychologically, they face higher risks of depression, behavioral issues, and identity struggles. Socially, they encounter difficulties in forming relationships, trust issues, and social isolation. Academically, their performance often declines, with lower grades, increased absenteeism, and reduced educational aspirations. Mitigating these negative effects is crucial. Parental support plays a vital role in helping children cope with the changes brought by divorce. Counseling and therapy provide essential emotional and psychological support, while maintaining stable routines and environments helps children adjust and provides a sense of security. Continued research is necessary to better understand and address the impacts of divorce on children. Developing and implementing support systems and programs for children and families during and after divorce is essential. A holistic approach to supporting children's development during and after parental divorce is crucial, as it helps them overcome challenges and build resilience. With the right support and interventions, children can navigate the difficulties of divorce and continue to thrive in their development.