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Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?
In the busy and crowded world, we should not expect people to be polite to others.
Residing in metropolitan areas, overwhelmed with mounting population, modern people have probably experienced more than once when tapped on the arm or when tapping others with no offence. Some contend that in such busy and crowded world, we should not expect people to be polite to others because nowadays people tend to be less sensitive to discourteousness, in other words, the threshold for reacting to it has changed. However, I firmly disagree with this statement since politeness plays a pivotal role in molding one's character and moral, thus affecting one's social networks. In addition, more often than not, misbehavior can lead to low efficiency or delay certain types of work.
To begin with, good manners become increasingly crucial in socializing with others. One's character is the crux in the formation of likes and dislikes when it comes to social contact. And impoliteness can definitely leave a stain on it, because good manners belong to the basic social intercourse, demonstrating respect in an invisible way to whom one is interacting with. Rudeness, by contrast, clearly displays one's personality defect in lacking fundamental respect to others. Moreover, it leaves an impression of effrontery and insolence, which is a doubtless ruin in relationships. To illustrate, among my high school classmates, there was one who never paid any attention to his manners. Hardly anyone liked him because they felt their esteem offended and their pride injured when talking to him. Consequently, his surliness alienated him from others, both students and teachers. Therefore, to form a normal network with others, one should mind his/her manners.
Additionally, courtesy saves time, ensuring the effectiveness and efficiency in social functioning. Courtesy is the lubricant that reduces friction. Generally, it saves the time that may otherwise be wasted in quarrels and fights. For instance, the actions of the Japanese refugees who waited patiently in long lines to obtain water after the March 2011 earthquake startled people around the world. Had they tried to cut in line, it would certainly taken longer for all to get water, and it could even have given rise to violence. It is obvious that good manners sometimes contribute to the regular running of society.
It is true that in this busy and crowded world, there are inevitable circumstances where people cause inconvenience and discomfort to others, be it intentional or not. Nevertheless, the majority tend to avoid them because etiquette is essential in shaping one's personality and socializing with others. Furthermore, lack of politeness may lead to conflicts which lower the efficiency in the operating of society.
I am preparing for toefl and hope to receive as much advice as possible.
So please help with my essay. Make corrections for me and grade it out of 5 if you could.
I appreciate your help.
Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?
In the busy and crowded world, we should not expect people to be polite to others.
Residing in metropolitan areas, overwhelmed with mounting population, modern people have probably experienced more than once when tapped on the arm or when tapping others with no offence. Some contend that in such busy and crowded world, we should not expect people to be polite to others because nowadays people tend to be less sensitive to discourteousness, in other words, the threshold for reacting to it has changed. However, I firmly disagree with this statement since politeness plays a pivotal role in molding one's character and moral, thus affecting one's social networks. In addition, more often than not, misbehavior can lead to low efficiency or delay certain types of work.
To begin with, good manners become increasingly crucial in socializing with others. One's character is the crux in the formation of likes and dislikes when it comes to social contact. And impoliteness can definitely leave a stain on it, because good manners belong to the basic social intercourse, demonstrating respect in an invisible way to whom one is interacting with. Rudeness, by contrast, clearly displays one's personality defect in lacking fundamental respect to others. Moreover, it leaves an impression of effrontery and insolence, which is a doubtless ruin in relationships. To illustrate, among my high school classmates, there was one who never paid any attention to his manners. Hardly anyone liked him because they felt their esteem offended and their pride injured when talking to him. Consequently, his surliness alienated him from others, both students and teachers. Therefore, to form a normal network with others, one should mind his/her manners.
Additionally, courtesy saves time, ensuring the effectiveness and efficiency in social functioning. Courtesy is the lubricant that reduces friction. Generally, it saves the time that may otherwise be wasted in quarrels and fights. For instance, the actions of the Japanese refugees who waited patiently in long lines to obtain water after the March 2011 earthquake startled people around the world. Had they tried to cut in line, it would certainly taken longer for all to get water, and it could even have given rise to violence. It is obvious that good manners sometimes contribute to the regular running of society.
It is true that in this busy and crowded world, there are inevitable circumstances where people cause inconvenience and discomfort to others, be it intentional or not. Nevertheless, the majority tend to avoid them because etiquette is essential in shaping one's personality and socializing with others. Furthermore, lack of politeness may lead to conflicts which lower the efficiency in the operating of society.
