There is no denying that parents are our teachers providing guidance when we are lost, giving supports when we are stuck in troubles and realistically to say, offering financial assistance to us. Since we are not mentally ready to living on our own without parents' help, we would definitely better live with our parents. In this case, we would have enough time to prepare ourselves, have sufficient financial support to finishing education and we could also avoid making big mistakes when making decisions. From these perspectives, it is undoubtedly that living with parents creates unconceivable benefits for our lives, however, we failed to realize the numerous disadvantages brought by being dependent on parents. From my point of view, the demerits outweigh the merits.
Although parents can make our lives easier and allow us well prepared for the future life in certain aspects, they make us too lazy to think by ourselves and be anxious when when they are absent. You experience it, and then you learn from it, meaning that if you count on your parents' advice and guidance, you will inevitably lose opportunities to learn from mistakes and improve yourself. On the contrary, when you making decisions on you own, you are cultivating a kind of significant ability called critical thinking which beneficial to your study, to you work and literally to your entire life. Also, since you have experience in making decisions, you will not feel anxious and lazy when you need to do that.
Moreover, living with parents and depending on them are more likely to adversely affect relationships with our parents. Firstly, even though our parents' suggestions are to some extent helpful and for the sake of our benefits, they do out of date, say too conservative. Take my parents as an example. Whenever talking about my future marital mate, they both strongly oppose me to marry a distant person because they seem to think that only people they know well such as their friends' or colleges' son is reliable. Therefore, a discrepancy between us as let to and an unpleasant conservation is caused. In addition, out of care or many other reasons they are always interfering my personal stuff. I know it is because of their love that they want to prepare everything for me, ask reasons when I back home late than seven o'clock and even interfere who I can make friends with but it is really annoying which makes it easier for us to initiate quarrels.
In conclusion, living with parents does relive our burden physically and mentally, it generally and unavoidably lets us become over-dependent, less responsive to difficulties and failures and also less qualified for the life.
Although parents can make our lives easier and allow us well prepared for the future life in certain aspects, they make us too lazy to think by ourselves and be anxious when when they are absent. You experience it, and then you learn from it, meaning that if you count on your parents' advice and guidance, you will inevitably lose opportunities to learn from mistakes and improve yourself. On the contrary, when you making decisions on you own, you are cultivating a kind of significant ability called critical thinking which beneficial to your study, to you work and literally to your entire life. Also, since you have experience in making decisions, you will not feel anxious and lazy when you need to do that.
Moreover, living with parents and depending on them are more likely to adversely affect relationships with our parents. Firstly, even though our parents' suggestions are to some extent helpful and for the sake of our benefits, they do out of date, say too conservative. Take my parents as an example. Whenever talking about my future marital mate, they both strongly oppose me to marry a distant person because they seem to think that only people they know well such as their friends' or colleges' son is reliable. Therefore, a discrepancy between us as let to and an unpleasant conservation is caused. In addition, out of care or many other reasons they are always interfering my personal stuff. I know it is because of their love that they want to prepare everything for me, ask reasons when I back home late than seven o'clock and even interfere who I can make friends with but it is really annoying which makes it easier for us to initiate quarrels.
In conclusion, living with parents does relive our burden physically and mentally, it generally and unavoidably lets us become over-dependent, less responsive to difficulties and failures and also less qualified for the life.