Ten ways to have a better conversation by Calste Headlee (TEDsummary)
What the amazing performance by Caleste Headlee, a girl who taught us 10 things we need to apply in the way we talking to other people without feeling bored and wasting our time, even if those people are the one we do not like and attract us.
Let me point them up :
1. Be focus. When we talk to other people, do not playing your smartphone or everything else that will disturb your concentration.
2. Do not talk too much about yourself. The big reason is, you talk to someone else to learn something from them since everybody is master of different field.
3. Begin with 5W+1H question. It is to make the gradual conversation.
4. Let it flow. We just need to talk all the things that come out your brain.
5. Be honest. When you talk to someone, then you do not know something, say it truly that you do not know.
6. Do not talk the experience that makes you focus on talking all about you.
7. Try not to repeat yourself as it will make people you talk is getting bored.
8. Forget the details about you because do not care about the details of you such as when were you born, when was the last time you got a present, or something else.
9. This is the most important one that many people always ignore it, listen. The problem that people never realize is, they listen to reply not to understand.
10. Be brief and be interesting.
Through her presentation, she told us to go out and find someone to be talked with as talking is not that hard.
What the amazing performance by Caleste Headlee, a girl who taught us 10 things we need to apply in the way we talking to other people without feeling bored and wasting our time, even if those people are the one we do not like and attract us.
Let me point them up :
1. Be focus. When we talk to other people, do not playing your smartphone or everything else that will disturb your concentration.
2. Do not talk too much about yourself. The big reason is, you talk to someone else to learn something from them since everybody is master of different field.
3. Begin with 5W+1H question. It is to make the gradual conversation.
4. Let it flow. We just need to talk all the things that come out your brain.
5. Be honest. When you talk to someone, then you do not know something, say it truly that you do not know.
6. Do not talk the experience that makes you focus on talking all about you.
7. Try not to repeat yourself as it will make people you talk is getting bored.
8. Forget the details about you because do not care about the details of you such as when were you born, when was the last time you got a present, or something else.
9. This is the most important one that many people always ignore it, listen. The problem that people never realize is, they listen to reply not to understand.
10. Be brief and be interesting.
Through her presentation, she told us to go out and find someone to be talked with as talking is not that hard.
