one significant experience or accomplishment that has helped you define as a person
At first, I believed that everything would go as planned. Everything is going exactly as I want it to. I was raised by having all of my wants and needs met. I'm the happiest girl on the planet. I was transferred to a new section when I was in seventh grade. I met this group of people who became my friends. We spent a lot of time together, and that's how I got to know them. I dislike them a lot, and our decisions aren't always in sync. We split up and fought, and I became a loner. They approached me after a month and asked what was wrong with me. I realized I was the cause of problems, it was my pride and ego.
Years passed, and I was in ninth grade when I met this boy. The boy who made me feel something unique. I'd always wanted to look into the boy's eyes. The boy who makes me want to go to school. I was totally in love. We are always together, studying, hanging out, eating, and talking a lot. I am ecstatic that this man treats me like a princess, that he understands me, and that he accepts me for who I am. I'm eased that I don't have to change myself for him. Months have passed, and I do not understand him; he is not the same person he used to be, and he has begun to argue with me. I am so frustrated and broke up with him because of the way he treats me. The first few months are nothing to me because it is not my loss; I know he lost something that would truly care for him as a result of his actions. After a year, I noticed that he had fallen in love again, and I had also found another. This is when I realized I had let him down. I was treated so badly by this recent boy that I realized I was the problem in my previous relationship. Again, it was my pride and ego that caused me to lose him. I didn't notice he was tired because of how I acted, so I ended my relationship with him. The boy I lost is the best man any girl could ask for. I realized he is so unique that I am not asking for the bare minimum. I was so lucky back then that I didn't even realize it. I ended my most recent relationship and was grieving for the past man. That man is so happy now, and I saw his eyes being treated properly by this new girl. I'm having relapses about him right now. My pride and ego ruined something very special to me. When I was in 11th grade, I transferred to another school to begin a new life and environment. I made a lot of friends, and that's when I started thinking about myself. I began to second-guess every decision I made. I'm always afraid of losing and ruining something special. I also began to set limits and boundaries for myself and others. My priorities have shifted to self-love and self-care. I concentrated my efforts on becoming the best version of myself and honing my feminine energy.
