Q> moving to different countries or towns is not good because of loosing old friends. D/A
These days, it is natural for people to move from one place to another because of job, marriage, and other family reasons. Therefore, many people think that it is misunderstanding that moving to different places will cause losing old friends Also, they say that it is better moving different countries and towns frequently for some reasons. However, I do not agree that, moving to strange places, rather than staying a familiar place, is a pivotal role in having successful life. There are two main reasons; to have better human relationships and to avoid from getting stressed out.
First, when it comes to becoming successful in human relationships, moving other places is not better in the end. Some might say that, even if people leave their home town, they can contact their old friends thanks to developments of technology. However, even though they can meet their old friends through the Internet or telephones, they soon will alienate from each others just like the old saying 'Out of sight, Out of mind'. Besides, some people argue that, by going some big towns, people can not only make a wide range of friends, but also broaden their social network. This will be definitely helpful when they need some help. However, suppose that you urgently need 3,000 dollars because of sudden accidents. Do you think that your new friends can borrow big money without any doubts? What if your son has a hard time being adapted in new surroundings? Do you believe moving another places again can solve the problems? Absolutely, not. Only those who have known you and your sons for a long time solve these problems. From having a happy family to making true friends, there is nothing more helpful than staying one place for a long time.
Second, as far as getting stressed out is concerned, staying a familiar place is better. These days, a number of people are stressed out due to the heavy burden of being adapted fast-changing society and the financial burdens. From struggling to be adapted new places whenever you move to spending unnecessary money for relocating your furniture, there is nothing more stressful than migrating other places. I felt these types of discomfort a couple years ago when I moved into Japan due to my father's business. However, since I came back my hometown, I have not been worried about whether I should eat unpalatable foods, whether I could go my destinations without getting lost in the streets, whether I could hang out with my peers in a school. Moreover, there is a interesting report conducted by the sociology department of Seoul National University. It showed that 86.2% cities who had a number of migrations recorded a high rate of stress than which did not. This was a result of being stressed out due to leaving their familiar places. On the other hands, if they keep live in their hometown, rate of stress would be low. This is not an isolated case; a survey in Japan showed the same results for the same reasons. In this sense, there is no doubt it is better to stay familiar place.
These days, it is natural for people to move from one place to another because of job, marriage, and other family reasons. Therefore, many people think that it is misunderstanding that moving to different places will cause losing old friends Also, they say that it is better moving different countries and towns frequently for some reasons. However, I do not agree that, moving to strange places, rather than staying a familiar place, is a pivotal role in having successful life. There are two main reasons; to have better human relationships and to avoid from getting stressed out.
First, when it comes to becoming successful in human relationships, moving other places is not better in the end. Some might say that, even if people leave their home town, they can contact their old friends thanks to developments of technology. However, even though they can meet their old friends through the Internet or telephones, they soon will alienate from each others just like the old saying 'Out of sight, Out of mind'. Besides, some people argue that, by going some big towns, people can not only make a wide range of friends, but also broaden their social network. This will be definitely helpful when they need some help. However, suppose that you urgently need 3,000 dollars because of sudden accidents. Do you think that your new friends can borrow big money without any doubts? What if your son has a hard time being adapted in new surroundings? Do you believe moving another places again can solve the problems? Absolutely, not. Only those who have known you and your sons for a long time solve these problems. From having a happy family to making true friends, there is nothing more helpful than staying one place for a long time.
Second, as far as getting stressed out is concerned, staying a familiar place is better. These days, a number of people are stressed out due to the heavy burden of being adapted fast-changing society and the financial burdens. From struggling to be adapted new places whenever you move to spending unnecessary money for relocating your furniture, there is nothing more stressful than migrating other places. I felt these types of discomfort a couple years ago when I moved into Japan due to my father's business. However, since I came back my hometown, I have not been worried about whether I should eat unpalatable foods, whether I could go my destinations without getting lost in the streets, whether I could hang out with my peers in a school. Moreover, there is a interesting report conducted by the sociology department of Seoul National University. It showed that 86.2% cities who had a number of migrations recorded a high rate of stress than which did not. This was a result of being stressed out due to leaving their familiar places. On the other hands, if they keep live in their hometown, rate of stress would be low. This is not an isolated case; a survey in Japan showed the same results for the same reasons. In this sense, there is no doubt it is better to stay familiar place.
