Over-parenting is still most parents do for their children. Is it good enough? Not really, because if we do such a thing to over-doing and over-ptotecting will be unadiquate for the children. Eventough we force our children to become what we want with a perfection. We seem to behave in and make them follow our mind.
Harvard Grant Study said that happiness in life comes from love, not love of work, love of humans: our spouse, our partner, our friends, our family. So, Childhood needs to teach our kids how to love, and they can't love others if they don't first love themselves, and they won't love themselves if we can't offer them unconditional love.
This statement is really make us barinstrom briskly. Why? Because we start everything with wrong mindset. We do everything in wrong way, including nurture our children. So, start from now on, we have to change our mindset to bear in mind and broaden the mind for educate our children.